{"id":3649,"date":"2018-02-14T12:54:57","date_gmt":"2018-02-14T17:54:57","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/?p=3649"},"modified":"2018-02-14T12:54:57","modified_gmt":"2018-02-14T17:54:57","slug":"some-hearts-are-made-to-be-broken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/2018\/02\/14\/some-hearts-are-made-to-be-broken\/","title":{"rendered":"Some Hearts Are Made to Be Broken"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3650\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-2-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-2-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-2-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-2-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-2-1080x1350.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For 5 years now, 3 years longer than Glitter and Lazers has existed, I have done a sad photoshoot for Valentines Day. The first one started as a joke. My friend Mary and I were bored on V-day, did some terrible make up, went to brunch with said sad girl make up and found ourselves doing an impromptu photoshoot. This\u00a0 ultimately devolved into, who could look the saddest on camera. It was legitimately a good time.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3656\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/180966_829661200319_2431158_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"604\" height=\"425\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/180966_829661200319_2431158_n.jpg 604w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/180966_829661200319_2431158_n-300x211.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 604px) 100vw, 604px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>The next time Valentine&#8217;s day rolled around, Mary wasn&#8217;t single, but I was. So, I did the shoot again, this time by myself.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3657\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/10386761_10101840677763979_6305125615708597839_n-65x65.jpg 65w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Now it was a tradition, and I couldn&#8217;t be stopped. I took this photo in 2016.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-3658\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"960\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/12744726_10102406975319139_7699576052523633425_n-65x65.jpg 65w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In 2017, I added Data into the mix, because for some reason his presence just made it even better. He understands me, as he too is single.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3659\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-65x65.jpg 65w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o-1080x1080.jpg 1080w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/16700327_10103200203698109_1746799569666312473_o.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>For this years shoot, I wanted to do something different. Gone were the past ways of just getting really tanked in a funny t-shirt in front of a camera, 2018 needed a new vibe. The world needed an editorial version of the Sad Valentin&#8217;s tradition.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3651\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-3-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-3-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-3-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-3-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-3-1080x1350.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Once I saw this heart shaped pi\u00f1ata online I knew what direction this needed to take. A lover scorned. A baseball bat. Excessive make up. Heels. I was the ex-girlfriend your momma warned you about. I am sad and I am dangerous.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3652\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-4-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-4-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-4-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-4-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-4-1080x1350.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Trashing a pi\u00f1ata in public is more fun then I thought it would be. I especially enjoyed the sassy man who stopped and cheered me on. It seems the city of smog has more than one scorned lover on it&#8217;s streets.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3653\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-5-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-5-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-5-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-5-1080x1441.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It was also super cathartic. Hitting something with a giant stick is actually really fun. Making loud destructive noises in public, also fun.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3655\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-1-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-1-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-1-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-1-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-1-1080x1350.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not bitter about Valentine&#8217;s Day. I just feel like we get so much relationship bliss thrown in our faces this time of year, I wanted to do something to represent the others- those of who are sick of being told we&#8217;ll find someone or that we&#8217;ll get &#8217;em next year. The crowd thats sick of texts from exes and\u00a0 2 for 1 specials. Those of us who are single and don&#8217;t need to be reminded of it like it some type of curse.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-3654\" src=\"http:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-6-819x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"819\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-6-819x1024.jpg 819w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-6-240x300.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-6-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.glitterandlazers.com\/Blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/02\/Sad-Valentines-Day-2018-6-1080x1350.jpg 1080w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 819px) 100vw, 819px\" \/><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For 5 years now, 3 years longer than Glitter and Lazers has existed, I have done a sad photoshoot for Valentines Day. The first one started as a joke. 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